Top 5 Signs Your Cat Loves You (Plus a Special Treat Recipe!)

By April Liu

Top 5 Signs Your Cat Loves You (Plus a Special Treat Recipe!)

If you're a cat parent, you’ve probably wondered at some point: Does my cat really love me? Unlike dogs, who express their affection more obviously, cats have their own unique ways of showing love. But don’t worry—your feline friend might be more attached to you than you think! Here are the top five signs your cat truly loves you, plus a special homemade treat recipe to return the favor.

Slow Blinks = Kitty Kisses

When your cat gazes at you and slowly blinks, it's the feline equivalent of blowing a kiss! This behavior means they trust and feel comfortable around you. Try returning the slow blink—you might just start a silent love conversation with your cat.

Head Butts & Cheek Rubbing

Cats have scent glands on their heads, cheeks, and chins. When they head-butt or rub their face against you, they’re marking you with their scent, claiming you as their own. This is a strong sign of affection and bonding!

Purring in Your Presence

While cats purr for different reasons, a relaxed and contented purr when they’re curled up next to you is a surefire sign of love. If your cat purrs when they see you, it means they associate you with comfort and happiness.

Bringing You ‘Gifts’

Whether it’s a toy, a sock, or (for outdoor cats) a not-so-welcome surprise from nature, your cat bringing you “presents” means they consider you part of their family. This instinct comes from their natural hunting behaviors, showing they want to provide for you as they would a fellow feline.

Sleeping Near or on You

Cats are most vulnerable when they sleep. If your kitty chooses to nap on your lap, next to you, or even on your head (yes, some do this!), it’s a strong sign they trust you completely and feel safe in your presence.

Show Your Love Back – A Special Cat Treat Recipe!

Now that you know how your cat shows love, why not return the favor with a homemade, cat-friendly snack? These Tuna & Catnip Crunchies are a hit with even the pickiest felines.

Ingredients:

  • 1 can of tuna in water (drained)

  • 1 egg

  • 1 cup oat flour (or finely ground oats)

  • 1 tbsp dried catnip

  • 1 tbsp olive oil

Instructions:

  1. Preheat your oven to 350°F (175°C).

  2. In a bowl, mash the tuna until smooth.

  3. Add the egg, oat flour, catnip, and olive oil, mixing well until a dough forms.

  4. Roll into small bite-sized balls and place them on a baking sheet lined with parchment paper.

  5. Flatten slightly with a fork and bake for 12–15 minutes, or until golden brown.

  6. Let them cool completely before serving.

These treats are best stored in an airtight container and can last up to a week in the fridge. Your cat will love you even more for these tasty bites!

Cats might not always be as outwardly affectionate as dogs, but they have their own adorable ways of showing love. Whether it’s a slow blink or a cozy nap on your lap, these signs all point to a deep bond. And with a little homemade treat, you can strengthen that bond even further!